Finally bought my wife a carry gun (she has a "house" gun, a Ruger .357). Went back to the gun shop a couple of weeks ago where we tried to buy one last year (has a good rep). Last year we passed because the sales guy was a Glock fan boy and wouldn't shut up. He had been asked to leave and the manager (and two employees) gave us super help even though we came in right before closing on a Saturday - the only day/time we could go together.
After showing and having her handle multiple guns she chose a 9mm Springfield XDS, the ambi controls (she's a lefty) and the grip size with the 8 round magazine was perfect for her.
Pic of the XDS from Guns America (she's playing with it right now)
We picked it up today and as were looking around she asked me if I should get a small 9mm also (I carry a Ruger SR1911) and if there were any I liked. I pointed to a Sig P938 and said "That's a nice one". She responded by noting it was less than the Sig she had looked at (which she really liked, but did not have ambi controls). I said that it was only cheaper by about $30 bucks. She told me to get it so we would both have two pistols.
We get to go back in a couple of weeks and pick it up.
Sig's pic of what I got coming...
There is a reason we've been together for over 26 years